Some people are still seeking for the help and are not confident...
If you have no confidence in self, you're twice defeated in the race of life..
With confidence, you have won before you have started..
Everybody will feel insecure from time to time...
Certain things can deliver short term confidence such as:
- A new Outfit
- A new Hairstyle
- A new Car
- A Promising Career
Three things to remember ABC rule:
First thing to confident is...
A is for APPRECIATION
Appreciate yourself..
We all have physical flaws.....
Shorter, Darker, Fatter etc...
BUT still you're something to someone...
You're more than a number on scale...
Just look at yourself in a mirror. You're way way way more excellent than you think.
'PHYSICAL FLAWS DOESN'T MATTER BUT INNER BEAUTY MATTERS'
After every single travel there is a treasure, i promise you'll always learn something.You will always have some good days and some bad days and after every bad day you learn the situation.Try to enjoy every moment of your life even the bad once too because we have one life and that will never come back to us NEVER.
B is for BE KIND
When you're giving kindness it means you're giving happiness.
If you don't like anything, change it. If you can't then change your attitude but don't COMPLAIN.
C is for CARE NO MORE
It is that every day you're getting positive compliments but when one negative compliment appears and that one compliment wipe away all positivity from you...
Accept that not everyone is going to like you.
When pencil is sharpen during the process it hurts but after that it can do much more better than before..
Trying to live life pleasing everybody is IMPOSSIBLE...
You'll never be happy living life validated on opinions of others.
'Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind'
Being nice is not hard but being is...
If I will attached with such people than between me and them there will be no difference.Judging others can make you innerly sad.
'YOUR WORDS EFFECT YOU'
When you tell anything to others you inside don't feel good.You can't control other's words but you can control your own attitude.The world is dark but we can bring light in it..
Confidence comes from heart,materialistic things can only provide temporary form of happiness but not in long term.
'ANYBODY CAN LOOK CONFIDENT BUT NOT EVERYBODY CAN FEEL CONFIDENT'
You're always welcome. :)
ReplyDeleteNice piece of writing... but i think different moments in life demand different type of confidence and that can come from experience and readiness... Rest tips are good for those who are having inferior complex or totally under confident.
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