HOW TO BE CONFIDENT AND HAPPY

Confidence is something everybody wants...
Some people are still seeking for the help and are not confident...
If you have no confidence in self, you're twice defeated in the race of life..
With confidence, you have won before you have started..

Everybody will feel insecure from time to time...
Certain things can deliver short term confidence such as:

• A new Outfit
•  A new Hairstyle
•  A new Car
•  A Promising Career

Being successful can gives you the confidence but what about the inner confidence that how you think about your ownself.

Three things to remember ABC rule:

First thing to confident is...

A is for APPRECIATION

Appreciate yourself..

We all have physical flaws.....
Shorter, Darker, Fatter etc...

BUT still you're something to someone...
You're more than a number on scale...
Just look at yourself in a mirror. You're way way way more excellent than you think.

    'PHYSICAL FLAWS DOESN'T MATTER BUT INNER BEAUTY MATTERS'

After every single travel there is a treasure, i promise you'll always learn something.You will always have some good days and some bad days and after every bad day you learn the situation.Try to enjoy every moment of your life even the bad once too because we have one life and that will never come back to us NEVER.

 B is for BE KIND

When you're giving kindness it means you're giving happiness.
If you don't like anything, change it. If you can't then change your attitude but don't COMPLAIN.

C is for CARE NO MORE

It is that every day you're getting positive compliments but when one negative compliment appears and that one compliment wipe away all positivity from you...

Accept that not everyone is going to like you.

When pencil is sharpen during the process it hurts but after that it can do much more better than before..

Trying to live life pleasing everybody is IMPOSSIBLE...
You'll never be happy living life validated on opinions of others.

   'Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind'

Being nice is not hard but being is...

If I will attached with such people than between me and them there will be no difference.Judging others can make you innerly sad.

   'YOUR WORDS EFFECT YOU'

When you tell anything to others you inside don't feel good.You can't control other's words but you can control your own attitude.The world is dark but we can bring light in it..
Confidence comes from heart,materialistic things can only provide temporary form of happiness but not in long term.

'ANYBODY CAN LOOK CONFIDENT BUT NOT EVERYBODY CAN FEEL CONFIDENT'

What your hand writing says about you?

Graphologists claim that your hand writing can reveal clues to your personality, see if any of these predictions ring true for you...

small hand writing:

• Shy
• Studious
• Concentrated
• meticulous

Average hand writing:

• Well-adjusted
• adaptable

LARGE HAND WRITING:

• Out going
• love attention
• people-oriented

Wide  spacing  between  words:

• You enjoy your freedom
• don't like crowds
• don't like to be overwhelmed

Narrow spacing between words:

• Can't stand to be alone
• tend to crowd people

Round letters:

• Artistic
• Creative

Pointed letters:

• Aggressive
• Intense
• Intelligent
• Curious

Connected letters:

• Logical
• Systematic

     "Letter ( t, o & i)"

 Crossing the very top of the "T"

• Good self-esteem
• optimist
• ambitious

Crossing the middle of the "t"

• Confident
• comfortable In your own skin

Open "O"

• Expressive
• Social
• Talkative

Closed "O" 

• Private
• introvert

Dot lands high over the " i "

• Imaginative

Dot lands to the left or right of the " i "

• Procrastination

Dot is perfectly over " i "

• Detailed Oriented
• Organised
• Emphatic

Putting a circle over the " i "

• Visionary
• child-like

Slashing the " i "

• Overly self-critical

Have You ever felt worthless?

Where your days seem so grey and dull...
NO excitement...
NO glamour...
NO thrill...
You feel little...

As you compare yourself, to people around you...
Who are MORE successful than you..
MORE smarter than you...
MORE richer than you...
MORE prettier than you...
There's a feeling of worthlessness...
suddenly, we are dissatisfied with our own lives.

Why?

Some of the world's most miserable people are richer and famous ones..
Money can definitely solve problems, But it can create problems too..
Greed leaves you wanting more...
Nothing physical in this world can bring long lasting happiness. That's why people get bored and want more but some of the happiest people in the world are the ones WHO DON'T EARN MUCH...
They're probably just average joes, who just have enough to get by..
They don't stand out in a crowd But they're richer with HAPPINESS....

Because they value the precious things that money can't buy...
Money can buy you medication but not HEALTH...
Money can buy you a house but not HOME...
Money can buy you a sex but not LOVE...
Money can buy you a companions but not FRIENDS...

So what if you don't stand out in a crowd, you can still be HAPPY, you're not WORTHLESS...
Big or small, you can make an impact too.... By being a good friend, spouse, parent or sibling.. leading a shoulder to cry on... Giving a warm hug.. sincerely is priceless. Big or small gestures. We can all make a difference. Of course there is nothing wrong with doing well in your life. Just realise money isn't everything. People can get caught up wanting things they don't have but everything you have now... is possibly all you'll ever need to give you true happiness...

After all,

  "IT'S NOT ABOUT THE FOOD YOU EAT, IT'S ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO EAT WITH YOU BY YOUR SIDE THAT MATTERS..."